6 things to learn from children.

The 27th of May is children’s day in Nigeria so I was not suprised when staff of some companies dressed the part wearing school costumes to work today. It was an interesting sight. I love how Nigerians love to celebrate at the slightest opportunity. It just confirms that it is important to find ways to…

WordSearchSeries #12: Suborn + Lying by Omission

Once again, the world has been hit so hard and it has left us speechless. The departure of anyone is never good news especially if it was sudden. My thoughts and prayer goes out to families of the victims affected by the Manchester attack. I pray for strength and comfort during this trying period, and…

28 signs you are doing something right.

Go! Go Phaytea! It’s your birthday! We gon’ party like… Haha..there’s no way I’m partying on a Monday though…but I did get the day off work so I’ll just sort some personal stuff I’ve stalled for so long and of course do fun stuff. It’s so unusual to be off work on Monday. I’m so…

What church ushers should not do.

Sunday fun day? I had a very busy sunday and i am only just settling in to write today’s post. I won’t be reviewing or sharing links today rather I’ll be sharing my experience in a new church I’ve been attending. Late last year, I had to start attending a church close to my house….

‘Mrs’ on social media first….

So happy it’s friday. It’s kind of a special weekend for me because my birthday is next Monday and I was able to get Monday off work.  Whoop whoop!! So ironically, self care starts today. (Meanwhile, how do you spend your birthday when it falls on a Monday?…most people will be at work till late…

WordSearchSeries #11: Amity + Parents, Kids & Finance

Hi hi Hump day means #WordSearchSeries and #WonderWednessday on #phayteaspulse. Here’s how i found the word for this week. The other day while waiting at the reception area of a company i had an appointment in, I decided to go through a newspaper just to wile away time instead of scrolling through my phone. I…

We need to talk.

How do you break the ice? Is it just me or does ‘We need to talk‘ have the tendency to send shivers down your spine. Yesterday was Mother’s day and I spent part of my day at Mum’s. It was nice to have some mum cooked meal, relax and go through my old stuff. I…

A Mother’s Love

Isn’t is awesome that we have celebrated women 3 times already this year? We cannot just have enough days to appreciate Mother’s. Like glue they stick when you are blue. Like the moon they illuminate in the dark. While we celebrate today, my thought and prayers goes out to anyone who lost their mum in…

5 things i can afford at the moment.

Woohoo!!! It’s finally friday….. Are you excited the weekend is here? Got plans?  Attending a wedding? Party? Shopping? Hair day? Meal prep? One of the reason i look forward to friday is being able to stay awake longer than normal and not bother about having a drab Saturday morning. You? Talking about shopping, what do…

#WordSearchSeries #10: Ginormous + PDA on Social Media

Hi Lovelies, It is hump day and I am hoping we have been feeding only positive thoughts so far. It is no longer news that i tilt towards a lot of positivity and mindfulness so when I ran into the wake up call with kevin, I had to dig out all the posts that resonated with…

Reflections: 5 Lessons the AtoZ Challenge taught me.

Hi Lovelies, Are we ready for the new week? If you have been frequent on Phaytea’s Pulse, you must know by now that we participated in the #AtoZ writing challenge in April.  (Hopefully, I don’t have to mention it again after this post..I’m beginning to sound like a broken record🙄🙄). After conquering that quest, it…

Phayview#4: Mind voices and body goals

Hi hi… Having a good day? It is another lovely (rainy) sunday morning, that means I get to share amazing reads, links and videos i am currently loving. If you missed the previous shares, please see Phayview#1 , Phayview#2 and Phayview#3  What does your inner speech say to you? Which thoughts do you feed? With the number of voices in…