28 signs you are doing something right.

Go! Go Phaytea!

It’s your birthday!

We gon’ party like…

Birthday girl

Haha..there’s no way I’m partying on a Monday though…but I did get the day off work so I’ll just sort some personal stuff I’ve stalled for so long and of course do fun stuff. It’s so unusual to be off work on Monday.

I’m so excited I want to scream but I’m worried I might get people wondering if I am okay.

I am very happy, content, grateful for life, thankful to God, super excited, super emotional, I’ve cried from the messages and voice notes I have received already and it isn’t 0700hrs yet.

…oh and I get to have cake today and not feel guilty.

For today, I’m thinking up 28 things I do that have helped me shape my youthful years…I don’t always make the best decisions but that’s what life is about.

Life is a beautiful experience, it isn’t always supposed to be easy but we should have moments where we are so happy it’s rubs off on others.
I’ll be sharing 28 things that confirm you are doing something right.

  1. You love yourself. Flaws and All.
  2. You care about other people.
  3. You make mistakes.
  4. You can laugh at your mistakes.
  5. You adore your family.
  6. You know how to figure out fair weather friends.
  7. You know that failing is part of life so you learn lessons whenever you fail.
  8. You do not take any relationship for granted.
  9. You are content with what you have.
  10. You know you cannot always have your shit together all the time.
  11. You know it’s fine to not feel like doing anything sometimes.
  12. You understand that you cannot please people all the time.
  13. You know people have different opinions from you and you respect that.
  14. You understand that forgiveness is important for your peace of mind.
  15. You have the mind of a fighter and you are not afraid to take on challenges.
  16. You know that life is not always fair but you do not go about sulking.
  17. You know that it is okay to feel like spending time alone. You are not a loner, it’s just called ‘me time’.
  18. You have the drive to improve in different areas of your life.
  19. You are not afraid to speak your mind but you are mindful.
  20. You understand that sometimes it is fine to argue because you learn from criticism. Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.
  21. You realise that the world is evolving and your ideas can change too. It is fine to ‘not want’ the things you wanted previously.
  22. You know that your decisions in life should not be formed by what people think about you. You should do things you are comfortable doing.
  23. You understand that your happiness should not depend on anyone. You should be responsible for how you feel and giving that right to anyone else is not healthy.
  24. You make healthy choices for yourself.
  25. You are in tune with your spirituality. 
  26. You know that you should declutter once in a while and you let go of things or people that contradicts your purpose.
  27. You understand that staying positive is key.
  28. Your know you should create new memories and you rock at it.

One more for the road:

  • You do not compare yourself with anyone.

So here are 28 things I came up with to indicate you are doing something right in life.

We might not make the best decisions all the time but it counts if in all your life on earth you do things that make you or someone else happy.

Share your thoughts….

What’s that one thing you do that gives you peace of mind or leave you satisfied?

What are the right decisions you have taken recently?

Can you guess how old i turn today?

I’ll love to read from you Lovelies.

Love, Peace and lots of Cupcakes


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30 Comments Add yours

  1. Happy Birthday πŸ˜€ Have fun and be safe πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€

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    1. Thank youuuuuu…..I will☺☺

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  2. Ritu says:

    Happy Birthday gurrrl! You share your birthday with my Darling Pops ! Hope you have a fantastic day!

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    1. Aww…how nice..Happy Birthday to your dad too….Thank youuuuu☺☺

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      1. Ritu says:



  3. Annika says:

    Aww happy birthday. Hope you have a lovely day. Loved readying this post. Thank you for sharing.

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    1. Thank youuuu Annika πŸ™‚


  4. Lovely post! I really like the points you highlighted. Happy birthday to you! 😊

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    1. I’m glad you enjoyed reading the post. Thank youuuu πŸ™‚

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  5. Samantha says:

    Happy birthdayyyyy! I love this post, it’s just makes me feel happy and by the points you highlighted, I must be doing something right ahah

    Samantha | https://samanthacarraro.wordpress.com/

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    1. It’s good to know it made you feel happy..Yaay youu!!! you’re doing a lot of this right..Thank youuuu


  6. ~Jigyasa~ says:

    Wish you a very Happy Birthday girl πŸ™‚
    Your posts makes me feel good about myself πŸ˜€ Yay !
    J https://blogthat90sgirl.wordpress.com/

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    1. Yayy youu!! That’s good to know…


  7. KuminKueche says:

    Happy Birthday dear, hope you have fun and nice dayyyyyys πŸ™‚

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    1. Thank you for the kind wishes. I appreciate πŸ™‚


  8. T. R. Noble says:

    Handing over my fears and anxieties to God. He gives me a peace of mind in the moments I struggle. πŸ™‚ Happy birthday!!!

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    1. Totally agree..God takes care of a lot of things we find difficult to handle…Thank you dear πŸ™‚

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  9. Jasmin N says:

    Oh happy birthday :-)! I hope that your day was awesome & you had plenty of cake haha!

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    1. Thank you Jasmin..I did have lots of cake and now i’m paying by working out more and having extra cups of green tea


  10. You summed up beautifully many positive things in life that we need to value! Btw, happy birthday! May you have a wonderful b-day!

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    1. Thank you for the kind wishes Rose…Thank you for reading too


  11. Happy Birthday πŸŽ‰Loved reading your thoughtful post and your ur appreciation towards life really shines through! Hope you have had lots of fun and lots of cake!

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    1. oh! i did have lots of cake…And now i have to work out a lot…Thank youuuu

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  12. Cheila says:

    Happy Birthday!!! ❀

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    1. Thank youuuuu lovely


  13. kittylimon says:

    Happy Birthday πŸ™‚ this was a really great list and i loved every point on it especially “You know it’s fine to not feel like doing anything sometimes” this is so true, sometimes you just need a break πŸ™‚

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    1. Thank youuuuu..and thank you for reading too πŸ™‚


  14. Happy birthday girl! I’m just feeling so good after reading this post. πŸ™‚


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    1. Thank you Manavi πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚


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